LGBTQ+ Identity Guide

🌈 Attraction-Based Orientations

πŸ’– Romantic Orientations

🧬 Gender Identities

Identity Description
CisgenderGender identity matches the sex assigned at birth
TransgenderGender identity differs from sex assigned at birth
NonbinaryGender identity outside the male/female binary
GenderqueerA broad term for nontraditional gender identities
AgenderDoes not identify with any gender
BigenderIdentifies as two genders, simultaneously or alternately
GenderfluidGender identity shifts over time
Two-SpiritIndigenous term encompassing gender, spirituality, and sexuality (culturally specific)
IntersexBorn with physical sex traits that don’t fit binary norms

πŸ“£ Pronoun Options

Pronoun Set Usage Example
He/HimHe is a great person. I like him. That book is his.
She/HerShe is amazing. I know her well. That pen is hers.
They/ThemThey are kind. I spoke to them. That laptop is theirs.
Ze/HirZe is strong. I support hir. That bag is hirs.
Xe/XemXe is ready. I helped xem. This project is xirs.
Any PronounsUser is comfortable with any pronouns
No Pronouns / Name OnlyUse the person's name instead of pronouns
Ask MeUser prefers to be asked what pronouns they use

πŸ› οΈ User Experience Tips

  • Let users choose multiple identities if needed
  • Offer a free-text option for custom pronouns
  • Keep sexual orientation, romantic orientation, and gender identity as separate fields
  • Include an "interested in" filter for compatibility matching